Have you ever wondered what your life might have been like “if”?

Ahh, there are so many “ifs” in life! I ponder about the “what ifs” from time-to-time.  Instead of pining over what could-have-been, I am now focusing on what is to come.  If we don’t take the time to determine what we want out of life and set goals to get there, we will never reach our desired destination.  How sad it would be to never reach our goals simply because we never took the time to set forth on the path which we needed to follow to get there!  So the next time I find myself wondering where I would be if I had made different decisions in the past, I am going try to refocus that energy into creating and following a plan for developing a better me.

Nothing can add more power to your life than concentrating all your energies on a limited set of targets.

~Nido Qubein

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3 Responses to “Focus”

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    Thank you for this post today. I needed to be reminded of this, as just last night I was laying in bed thinking about how different choices in the past would have changed where I am today. Thank you for the reminder that the past is the past, and we can only change the future!

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    Relishing Life

    I started writing this post months ago when I was really struggling with dwelling on the past and all of the “could of been’s” and “should of been’s” if different choices had been made long ago. To exert my energy being upset about the past is a hindrance to living the life I am blessed with today. I know that such thoughts will dance around my head in the future, but I will try not to allow them to stay. I have a wonderful life, and I plan on focusing on making it even better!

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    Great to hear from you! 😀 I need to get my goals ready and make small goals to accomplish them. 😀

    Thank you for stopping by!! 😀

    Have a great New Year!!
    .-= Sherry´s last blog ..Sweet Sleep! =-.

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